{"id":1458,"date":"2025-11-07T22:26:20","date_gmt":"2025-11-07T15:26:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/purecoaching.vn\/?p=1458"},"modified":"2026-09-22T16:07:12","modified_gmt":"2026-09-22T09:07:12","slug":"coaching-nguyen-ly-hinh-thanh-khoa-hoc-khai-van","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/purecoaching.vn\/en\/coaching-nguyen-ly-hinh-thanh-khoa-hoc-khai-van\/","title":{"rendered":"Coaching: 4 nguy\u00ean l\u00fd h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh khoa h\u1ecdc Khai v\u1ea5n"},"content":{"rendered":"Khai v\u1ea5n (Coaching) kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean l\u00fd khoa h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 n\u00e3o b\u1ed9, h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc. C\u00f9ng kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m n\u00ean m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p khai m\u1edf t\u01b0 duy m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1 v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng.\r\n<h2>Coaching: Nguy\u00ean L\u00fd H\u00ecnh Th\u00e0nh Khoa H\u1ecdc Khai V\u1ea5n<\/h2>\r\nXu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ki\u1ec3u tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng &#8211; lo\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m r\u00f2ng r\u00e3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn kh\u00e1c mang t\u00ean: khai v\u1ea5n. Theo Martin Seligman, ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp v\u00e0 ti\u00ean phong trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, khai v\u1ea5n xoay quanh c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ch\u00ednh y\u1ebfu sau: \u201c<i>B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai k\u00e9o m\u00ecnh \u0111i hay m\u1eb7c cho qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n m\u00ecnh<\/i>?\u201d\r\n\r\nCarol Kauffman &#8211; ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp, gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c H\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n \u0110\u00e0o t\u1ea1o Khai v\u1ea5n vi\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 ph\u1ee5 t\u00e1 l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Y Harvard &#8211; \u0111\u01b0a ra g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn kh\u00e1c trong b\u00e0i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed \u201c<b>Khai v\u1ea5n ch\u1ed1n c\u00f4ng s\u1edf<\/b>\u201d: \u201c<i>\u0110i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y\u00a0 l\u00e0 trong tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u th\u00ec ta l\u1ea7n theo d\u1ea5u n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft nh\u1eb1m m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh cho h\u1ecd. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u0103ng l\u00ean. Trong khai v\u1ea5n, ta l\u1ea7n theo d\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau b\u1eebng ch\u00e1y b\u00ean trong \u0111\u01b0a h\u1ecd ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. \u0110i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh<\/i>.\u201d\r\n\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-1712\" src=\"http:\/\/purecoaching.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/nguon-goc-khai-van.jpg\" alt=\"ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c khai v\u1ea5n\" width=\"611\" height=\"371\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/purecoaching.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/nguon-goc-khai-van.jpg 288w, https:\/\/purecoaching.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/nguon-goc-khai-van-18x12.jpg 18w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 611px) 100vw, 611px\" \/>\r\n\r\n\u0110\u1ecdc th\u00eam: <a href=\"https:\/\/purecoaching.vn\/en\/coaching-khai-van-thanh-cong-chemistry-session\/\">Khai v\u1ea5n ch\u1ec9 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau<\/a>\r\n\r\nCarol r\u1ea5t nhanh ch\u1ec9 ra s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 c\u00f4 cho l\u00e0 \u201cnhi\u1ec7m m\u00e0u\u201d \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi chuy\u1ec3n sang khai v\u1ea5n v\u00e0 coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfn t\u1ea1o, duy tr\u00ec nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n l\u1eabn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n.\r\n\r\nM\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ng\u00e0nh khai v\u1ea5n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn t\u1eeb 20 n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gieo trong th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc nh\u00e2n v\u0103n v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 70, \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m 80, khi m\u00e0 phong tr\u00e0o K\u1ef7 nguy\u00ean M\u1edbi (New Age) m\u1edbi xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n. T\u1ea1i th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3, hai xu h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ed1n t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t l\u1ea1i &#8211; m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 c\u1ee7a t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c Erhart Seminar Training (EST) v\u00e0 c\u00e1i c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n trong nh\u1eefng m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh m\u1edbi v\u1edbi hi\u1ec7u su\u1ea5t cao trong doanh nghi\u1ec7p d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u201cKi\u1ebfm T\u00ecm S\u1ef1 Ho\u00e0n H\u1ea3o\u201d xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n n\u0103m 1982 c\u1ee7a\u00a0 Peter Drucker v\u00e0 Tom Peters.\r\n<blockquote><strong>Ng\u00e0y nay khai v\u1ea5n l\u1ea5y c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh, bao g\u1ed3m t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, tham v\u1ea5n, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc, l\u1eadp tr\u00ecnh ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u01b0 duy (NLP), ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m v\u00e0 k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 Thi\u1ec1n t\u00f4ng Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o. Hi\u1ec7n nay m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n m\u1edbi v\u1edbi ch\u1ee9c danh l\u00e0 Coach (Chuy\u00ean gia Khai v\u1ea5n) tuy nhi\u00ean ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u00edt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o b\u00e0i b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9ng ch\u1ec9 t\u1eeb c\u00e1c h\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea5p ch\u1ee9ng ch\u1ec9.<\/strong><\/blockquote>\r\n<a href=\"https:\/\/coachfederation.org\/app\/uploads\/2018\/09\/2017ICFAnnualReport_FINAL_SPREADS.pdf\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Theo b\u00e1o c\u00e1o t\u1edbi 31 th\u00e1ng 12 n\u0103m 2017 c\u1ee7a Li\u00ean \u0111o\u00e0n Khai v\u1ea5n Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi (ICF)<\/a>, l\u00e0 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01a1n v\u1ecb \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o, cung c\u1ea5p ch\u1ee9ng ch\u1ec9 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp b\u1ed9 quy chu\u1ea9n \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c cho nh\u1eefng Chuy\u00ean gia th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n Khai v\u1ea5n, hi\u1ec7n nay c\u00f3 h\u01a1n 24,000 chuy\u00ean gia Khai v\u1ea5n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea5p ch\u1ee9ng ch\u1ec9 trong \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi h\u01a1n 14,000 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y t\u1ea1i M\u1ef9.\r\n\r\nTi\u1ebfn s\u1ef9 Cherie-Carter Scott, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ec7nh danh l\u00e0 Mother of Coaching (M\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0nh Khai v\u1ea5n), ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n Khai v\u1ea5n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o Chuy\u00ean gia Khai v\u1ea5n t\u1eeb n\u0103m 1974 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi Coaching \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p. B\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp H\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n To\u00e0n C\u1ea7u MMS (MMS Worldwide Institute), \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0 \u0111ang \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o Coach tr\u00ean h\u01a1n 30 n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1ea1i ch\u00e2u \u00c2u, ch\u00e2u \u00c1 v\u00e0 M\u1ef9. B\u00e0 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng khai v\u1ea5n d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khai v\u1ea5n v\u00e0 khai th\u00e1c s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i.\r\n\r\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com\/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQsxxCXk9mJ74uwg-gpB_pfs_AUJr9aMrExGw&amp;s\" alt=\"TOP 25 QUOTES BY CHERIE CARTER-SCOTT Khai v\u1ea5n\" width=\"327\" height=\"154\" title=\"\">\r\n\r\nTrong th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn n\u00e0y, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn khai v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd v\u1ea1ch ra k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t su\u1ed1i b\u0103ng \u0111\u00e8o ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Karen cho r\u1eb1ng: \u201c\u1ede ngo\u00e0i kia c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3, n\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i.V\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 l\u1ea5y \u0111i h\u01a1i th\u1edf c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1eady. Nh\u01b0ng, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng, khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 r\u1eddi b\u1ecf t\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00e2m th\u1ebf s\u00e1ng r\u00f5 \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc.\u201d\r\n\r\nC\u00f4 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c: \u201cNh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i v\u1eadt \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u00edt \u0111i, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd y\u00ean t\u00e2m h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1edfi h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ed3i. H\u1ecd th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 l\u00fd do c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.\u201d\r\n<h2>Nguy\u00ean L\u00fd Th\u1ea7n Kinh H\u1ecdc: Neuroplasticity v\u00e0 Coaching<\/h2>\r\nKhai v\u1ea5n d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nguy\u00ean l\u00fd neuroplasticity \u2013 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 t\u00e1i t\u1ea1o li\u00ean k\u1ebft th\u1ea7n kinh c\u1ee7a n\u00e3o. Khi c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0 duy gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 duy m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng, c\u00e1c k\u1ebf n\u1ed1i th\u1ea7n kinh m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen.\r\n<blockquote>Coaching kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0o nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi n\u00e3o \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e1i l\u1eadp nh\u1eefng l\u1ed1i m\u00f2n t\u01b0 duy c\u0169.<\/blockquote>\r\n<div contenteditable=\"false\">\r\n\r\n<hr \/>\r\n\r\n<\/div>\r\n<h2>T\u00e2m L\u00fd H\u1ecdc T\u00edch C\u1ef1c (Positive Psychology)<\/h2>\r\nMartin Seligman \u2013 cha \u0111\u1ebb c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u2013 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec7 cao coaching. \u00d4ng cho r\u1eb1ng coaching gi\u00fac c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh, \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed9 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, hy v\u1ecdng, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c.\r\n\r\n\u0110i\u1ec1u ti\u1ebfp theo \u0111\u00e2y nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u1ea5m l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 h\u01a1i m\u01a1 h\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng h\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa khoa h\u1ecdc th\u1ea7n kinh v\u00e0 khai v\u1ea5n. Ann Betz, m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong CTI v\u00e0 l\u00e0 khai v\u1ea5n vi\u00ean k\u1ef3 c\u1ef1u, \u0111\u00e3 tham gia v\u00e0o qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y. Ann kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh: \u201cCh\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi khai v\u1ea5n vi\u00ean c\u00f3 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u01b0a ra r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t gi\u1ed1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 trong nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 khoa h\u1ecdc th\u1ea7n kinh ch\u1ee9ng minh l\u00e0 gi\u00fap h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.\u201d\r\n\r\nHai m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, khai v\u1ea5n n\u1ed5i l\u00ean nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n cu\u1ed1n \u201cCoaching for Performance\u201d (1992) (Khai v\u1ea5n t\u1ea1o Hi\u1ec7u su\u1ea5t)* \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ebft b\u1edfi nh\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o v\u00e0 khai v\u1ea5n doanh nghi\u1ec7p Sir John Whitmore. \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh GROW (Goal &#8211; M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau, Reality &#8211; Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, Options &#8211; L\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, Way &#8211; H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng) trong khai v\u1ea5n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u00ednh \u00f4ng v\u00e0 v\u00f4 v\u00e0n khai v\u1ea5n vi\u00ean v\u1eabn th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh d\u1ef1a theo cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u201cInner Game of Tennis\u201d(Cu\u1ed9c ch\u01a1i N\u1ed9i T\u00e2m c\u1ee7a V\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean Tennis) (1974) * c\u1ee7a Timothy Gallwey, coi n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng mang t\u00ednh n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng. Nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc trong \u201cInner Game of Tennis\u201d d\u00f9 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 si\u00eau h\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc trong th\u1ec3 thao, l\u1ea1i n\u00eau r\u00f5 c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i c\u1ee7a khai v\u1ea5n, trong ph\u1ea7n m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u s\u00e1ch nh\u01b0 sau:\r\n<blockquote>\u201cM\u1ecdi n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u bao g\u1ed3m hai tr\u1eadn \u0111\u1ea5u: b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 b\u00ean trong. Cu\u1ed9c ch\u01a1i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i di\u1ec5n ra \u1edf \u0111\u1ea5u tr\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i v\u1eadt b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Cu\u1ed9c ch\u01a1i b\u00ean trong th\u00ec di\u1ec5n ra trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01a1i, nh\u1eb1m v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea3n l\u1ed1i nh\u01b0 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3, s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 nghi ng\u1edd, thi\u1ebfu t\u1eadp trung, quan ni\u1ec7m hay gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1eabn c\u00f2n gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n. Tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i b\u00ean trong di\u1ec5n ra \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i v\u1eadt m\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb7t ra m\u00e0 t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e3 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n m\u00ecnh hay c\u1ea3 nh\u00f3m ph\u00e1t huy t\u1ed1i \u0111a ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng.\u201d<\/blockquote>\r\nCh\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1edbi s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb l\u00e2u d\u00e0i c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111o \u0111\u1ebfm.\r\n\r\nB\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0m khai v\u1ea5n l\u1ea7n n\u00e0o ch\u01b0a? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u khai v\u1ea5n t\u1edbi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng? L\u00ed do l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao?\r\n\r\n\u0110\u1ecdc th\u00eam: <a href=\"https:\/\/purecoaching.vn\/en\/lam-the-nao-de-ban-tim-dung-life-coach-cho-ban\/\">L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u00fang Life Coach cho b\u1ea1n<\/a>\r\n\r\n(*): <strong><em>Nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ecbch sang ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t. T\u00ean do t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch.\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>\r\n\r\n&nbsp;","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Khai v\u1ea5n (Coaching) kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean l\u00fd khoa h\u1ecdc [&#8230;]","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":1459,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"bwfblock_default_font":"","pmpro_default_level":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[125],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1458","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-coaching-101","pmpro-has-access"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/purecoaching.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1458","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/purecoaching.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/purecoaching.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purecoaching.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purecoaching.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1458"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/purecoaching.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1458\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1713,"href":"https:\/\/purecoaching.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1458\/revisions\/1713"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purecoaching.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1459"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/purecoaching.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1458"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purecoaching.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1458"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/purecoaching.vn\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1458"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}